Forget TV or the internet; I blame friends with older sisters for the degradation of today’s youth. Before she started school, my daughter Molly was a little sweetheart, full of sunshine and flower petals. She adored me, and the feeling was mutual. However, thanks to the delinquency of her cronies, she’s turned into a regular sassypants. “Um, I don’t think so,” she quipped yesterday, when asked if she wanted beans for dinner. Later, I asked her to take the garbage out, and she rolled her eyes at me. Where the $^%&# did she learn that? I didn’t pull that nonsense on my own mother until I was fifteen! Although, to be fair, my mother would’ve strung me up by my toes if I’d tried that earlier.
Friends with older sisters are carbon copies of their siblings, mimicking every move and nuance. How else do you explain Molly asking for pierced ears, or for an espresso from Starbucks? She’s not getting that from me – I’m not that cool. There’s one particular pal of hers whose sass verges on brattiness. Having Skylar over for playdates is always a test of patience. That girl bounces around my house like a wired-up lemur, smudging everything in her path. I’m happy that Molly has friends, but I’m happier to see certain friends leave. Skylar’s only redeeming quality is her self-awareness; she knows she’s a cheeky little monkey, but she also knows how far to push it. She’ll drag me right to end of my tether, then giggle and ask for more cookies. Bless her manipulative little heart!
I can’t blame friends and teenagers for all of Molly’s sass, though. She gets some of it from me! Sometimes, the tone of her voice matches mine so perfectly that I’m a little unnerved. Do I really sound like that? Let’s just hope little Andy doesn’t start the same thing, then I’d have TWO smart-alecky kids in the house. How would I ever survive? The sass would be off the charts! I’ll have to ask my mom for advice – god knows how she made it through my adolescence. That poor woman, dealing with two teenage, know-it-all girls. Hold on a second — I need to call her and beg for forgiveness!